FaceTime Sex Secrets

How to steam up your next video call


By Rebecca Mark


When it comes to video calls, our workplaces, music events, hen parties, movie nights, and cocktail evenings have all taken the big move towards the online world in the past few years, so it’s probably not surprising that our sex lives have also gone through the same changes. We know full well it’s difficult to keep the spark burning when you can’t physically be with your lover. Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or you want to try something new and exciting, carry on reading to pick up some of our tried and tested facetime sex tips and tricks.


Maybe you’re wondering what is FaceTime sex? It’s a video conversation between two consenting adults enjoying mutual pleasure. Basically, it allows you to be miles apart whilst still being able to maintain a level of connection and intimacy through video calls. It can be fun, exciting and totally hot, but it can also be quite nerve-wracking.


There isn’t a set rulebook on how to have FaceTime sex – it might just spontaneously happen during a video call, or you can choose to plan it and pick a suitable time when you’re both alone. Get comfortable and set the mood – dim the lights, play some music, light candles, pick your favorite lingerie set, and just do whatever you need to do to make you feel sexy and relaxed beforehand. Then when you’re ready, begin the call with your lover. Remember, there’s no pressure – be natural and it shouldn’t feel awkward or uncomfortable. You could start by telling them how much you miss them or what you’d be doing if you were together. Let the conversation flow and you’ll naturally figure out how to FaceTime sex. You could even try talking about your fantasies and experiment with some role-play scenarios together – use lots of descriptive words to set the scene and let your imagination run wild. We can pretty much guarantee they’ll be just as turned on as you are.


Pleasure Me Hand Massager and Orgasm Gel Set

You might want a helping hand during FaceTime sex – enter the Pleasure Me Hand Massager and Orgasm Gel Set – it’s a perfect combination if you’re looking for a non-vibrating toy. Made from super-soft silicone, the massager is ergonomically designed to sit comfortably in the palm of your hand as you use the textured side to stimulate your clitoris. The orgasm gel heightens the sensations and increases the blood flow to your most intimate area for more intense sensations.

Satisfyer App-Enabled Rechargeable Flex Vibrator

Let your lover control your pleasure with the Satisfyer App-Enabled Rechargeable Flex Vibrator. Designed to deliver blissful blended orgasms by simultaneously targeting the clitoris and the G-spot with powerful vibrations, it can be connected to an app on your smart device such as a phone, tablet, or watch from any distance. Your partner could be across the other side of the world controlling the vibrations as you feel them through the toy. Let your FaceTime sex positions get a little more exciting!


Climaximum Rechargeable Bullet

The Climaximum Rechargeable Bullet is perfect for sending pinpoint vibrations to your most sensitive spots. It’s made from smooth silicone and features multiple vibration settings to choose from, so you can tailor your experience to suit your pleasure needs. As you begin your FaceTime sex session, start on the lowest setting and slowly build up the pace to finish with a mind-blowing climax.

You might wonder, is Facetime sex safe? Before you begin, take a look at the different communication platforms available, as some are safer than others. Remember to only do what you’re comfortable with – it’s about communication, consent, and respect for one another just as IRL sex is. Let go of your inhibitions and feel free to express yourself however you please.


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